"Please Help, I am falling in love with My boyfriend's friend"

This lady just sent this to our inbox and needs our advice, he pleaded for anonymity ... See what she wrote below:

Please, no insults, I really need your advice on what to do in this crucial situation I find myself.

I will say I am a beautiful and very attractive lady and 24 years old. My boyfriend Debo is a workaholic, yes I know he is working for the future but when I saw workaholic he even does so when I go to visit him. His friend Osagie who they both share 3 bedroom flats work too but he still finds time for other things.

So I went to visit my boyfriend and I planned to spend about 2 weeks, I told him he should spare some time for us as I really needed to be with him and talk things over. But unfortunately, when I got there, it was the same story. Not only is he busy but he is so dry that he can't even make a room lively. When it is time for us to cuddle or make love, he just goes straight to action without even taking some time to, pleasure romance and discuss something erotic. 

At this my visit, I find myself falling in love with his friend Osagie. The thing his, Osagie is the one who always try to make my stay worthwhile. He always jokes when we are together in the parlour. He plays and sometimes helps me to do some house chores (my boyfriend does that too, but Osagie helping hands is teasing). To make issues worst, Osagie has just been heartbroken by his girlfriend, who he caught cheating on him. So I am so tempted to provide him with comfort as I am so in love with his person. I know this is wrong but I am so lost and I am a woman who has emotions and want to be, please. I know Osagie likes me too because he once grabs my butts and smiled about it. But we haven't done anything. 

So what should I do ... I am so tempted right now and my boyfriend Debo is not helping matters.

Please, your candid advice!!